Correction is the way to learning.
Proverbs 12:1, Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that hateth reproof is brutish.
I don’t know about you, but I was corrected A LOT when I was growing up. Many times, one spanking wasn’t enough. Many times, two spankings were not enough. Let’s just say, I was hard head and had to learn the hard way! However, those spanking didn’t kill me! As a matter of fact, they taught me what to do and what not to do. They taught me respect, honor, and how to obey the first time. They kept me out a lot of trouble!
If someone loves you, they will be willing to correct you. It may hurt, but through that hurting you are learning things that matter!